Posts tagged porn
Posts tagged porn
The way men and women interact on a daily basis is the way they interact when rape occurs. The social dynamics we see at play between men and women are the same social dynamics that cause men to feel rape is okay, and women to feel they have no right to object. And if you accept those social interactions as normal and appropriate in your day to day life, there is absolutely no reason you should be shocked that rape occurs without screaming, without fighting, without bruising, without provocation, and without prosecution. Behavior exists on a continuum. Rape doesn’t inhabit its own little corner of the world, where everything is suddenly all different now. The behavior you accept today is the behavior that becomes rape tomorrow. And you very well might accept it then, too.
Gail Dines, “When a feminist gets Bumped for a Pornographer”
[Society thinks] rape is not something a man chooses to do to someone; it‘s a natural phenomenon, like the rain or wind; sensible people will take umbrellas out with them and those who don‘t, will get rained on. Rape is presented as something women can avoid, like the rain, but those who don‘t, are a special breed of women apart from all others; something about them meant that nature picked them out to be raped; it wasn‘t something about the rapist that caused them to be raped, it was something about them.
To blame on women solely is very cruel. It is true that women play a large part in making them self as rape target but that does not mean the blame should be put on them 100%.
“… women play a large part in making them self as rape target…”
I think you’re missing the point, entirely.
Nowadays if we open the television we will see naked women, we open the newspaper we see naked women, when we surf the internet we see naked women. Everywhere we look we will see naked women around us so this indirectly increase the sexual desire of men.
Which is definitely not caused by the patriarchy. It’s definitely not men who want all these naked pictures of women in every form of media. Women clearly are misogynistic against themselves and -want- to be raped. Probably as punishment for their apparently naked bodies.
Now when you see naked women everywhere you look and suddenly a woman wear a shirt and yet naked (wearing bikini or mini skirt) what the first thing that comes into the mind of a man? Dirty filthy things because since young their mind have been tune to see women as a sexual object not as a human being.
We could all agree that society should change so that fewer people were raped, but it is the MAN’S fault if he just can’t help but rape a woman. Seriously? Are you seriously justifying this? It is never justifiable to rape someone, not even if society -demands- it from you.
So should we blame the women? Should we blame the men? NO!!! We should blame the whole society that is like a sinking ship and no one even bother to repair it and when comes people who do want to save and fix the ship like the true Muslim they are being call extremist or terrorist because they want to fix the morally broken society and this is viewed by the society as an attack on “freedom”.
Honestly, women should not have to wear clothing from head to toe in order to not be raped. If they -want- to wear that much clothing, then they should! But it should never be necessary. That makes your gender (males) sound weak and unable to control themselves. I’m -pretty sure- you’re all capable of listening to a “no.”
(via aamin1904)
(Source: counsellism, via aamin1904-deactivated20120712)
Here we have yet another reason for women to feel bad when it comes to their appearance! Honestly, I think the woman in the video was in great shape and didn’t need surgery at all (I mean, come on, her labia minora weren’t -that- big), but thanks to men promoting the ideal of tiny, baby, pornstar vaginas, she feels bad about herself.
FAN. TASTIC.
